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TheLoversGuide - February 16, 2026
There is a persistent myth that great lovers are defined by performance — by stamina, athleticism, or a repertoire of techniques learned and executed with precision. In reality, what makes [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - January 29, 2024
Sexual intimacy is clearly an important aspect of any romantic relationship, fostering desire, connection, and pleasure between partners — however, the significance of what happens after the physical charge of [ … ]
Illustrated Sex Positions & Techniques
TheLoversGuide - April 24, 2021
Many people think of scissoring as involving lesbians enjoying vulva on vulva action. And it does – with over 40 per cent of women identifying as lesbian, bisexual or queer [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - October 1, 2020
Sex is a crucial part of life. Let’s face it – sex is crucial TO life: none of us would be her without it. The average person has sex about a hundred time a year so – given most losing their virginity around the age of eighteen and are sexually active well into old age – that’s thousands of times during our lives [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - May 15, 2020
When stuck together – and many of us tending to overeat – can you use your intimate encounters to keep yourself trim? We know that getting fit can help you have a better sex life, but can having a better sex life help get you fitter? Now, we don’t mean to kick this off negatively, but it is clear that anyone who believes that sex could be a more effective form of exercise than, say, jogging is sadly mistaken. Of course, that’s leaving out the pleasure factor, where surely sex wins hands down [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - April 27, 2020
An often overlooked but highly erotic set of sex positions are those where you are standing up. Actually, they open up a wide range of opportunities going from the quick, [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - March 15, 2020
This sex position, in which the woman is on top, is fairly difficult but allows for shallow penetration and stimulates the underside of the penis. To achieve this position, the [ … ]
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Sustaining A Loving Relationship
TheLoversGuide - March 12, 2026
The romantic idea of a perfect “soulmate” is deeply appealing. Many people like to imagine that somewhere in the world there is one person destined to complete them — a [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - August 25, 2023
There’s a bad joke that runs: “How do you stop someone giving you a blow job? Answer: Marry them.” But it doesn’t have to be this way! Partners can not [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - December 23, 2020
Sex and happiness go together, surely! Well, it turns out that actually it’s not so direct a correlation. There’s even a major gender disparity, with men being two and a [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - July 6, 2020
A kiss is one of the most common gestures of affection. – but it can also be one of the most intimate and erotic. When you are testing whether you [ … ]
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TheLoversGuide - March 12, 2026
The romantic idea of a perfect “soulmate” is deeply appealing. Many people like to imagine that somewhere in the world there is one person destined to complete them — a [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - February 16, 2026
There is a persistent myth that great lovers are defined by performance — by stamina, athleticism, or a repertoire of techniques learned and executed with precision. In reality, what makes [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - November 11, 2025
The Hidden Signs No One Can Keep Forever Cheating always begins quietly — in secrecy, curiosity, and desire. It may start with harmless messages or moments of emotional escape, but [ … ]
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Flirting And Dating Tips
TheLoversGuide - December 1, 2020
How do you feel about online dating? Couples can still be a little reluctant to say they met online. From now on, though, they should shrug off any lingering social stigma, [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - April 21, 2020
Casual sex or a committed relationship? Some people believe casual sex hook ups are easy and have no complications, but sex is loaded with emotions and often you can receive [ … ]
Gay Relationships
TheLoversGuide - October 1, 2020
What draws us, even compels us, to love and desire one person rather than another? There will, no doubt, be a range of superficial similarities: points of connection, looks, attitudes and interests shared. But that’s the case with our friends as well – and we do not usually look at our friends in the same way we regard our lover. One convincing theory is that we see in our gay lover [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - February 13, 2020
Usually when we fight, and especially in relationships, it is our own internal anger and conflict we are expressing. Yes, there are times in life when we need to stand [ … ]
Lesbian Sex
TheLoversGuide - May 1, 2023
Sexual intimacy can be a wonderful and fulfilling part of any relationship, and lesbian couples are no exception. Exploring different sex positions can help you and your partner deepen your [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - February 10, 2020
When anyone mentions role play, it’s quite often that bizarre and somewhat scary thoughts are conjured up. You picture yourself dressed up as a doctor about to administer an enema, [ … ]
Gay Sex Positions & Sex Play
TheLoversGuide - November 1, 2020
Growing up gay as a young teen can be a lonesome prospect. Do the math and even in a big school there probably aren’t too many of us there and, of those, several might be struggling. Our Enlightened Times have a way to go yet. Issues, issues, issues – home, religions, other guys – even straight guys worrying over who they are sexually [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - September 1, 2020
Al fresco gay sex is great fun! (Disclaimer: legalities might be entailed; don’t scare the natives!) Sure, for some there’s the trundling around – sorry: cruising – the bushes of your local common – the name of which for others says it all. (And who said romance was dead?!) For the more loving among us, for ourselves and our partners, it’s just nice to get out somewhere, with the breeze and the scent of wild heather [ … ]
Sex Problems
TheLoversGuide - November 15, 2020
My sex problem: When I have sex with my man, I like to ride him. Why? Because that’s the only way I have had an orgasm. I want to know how he can give me an orgasm without playing out that position [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - May 10, 2020
Are you addicted to porn? Instead of enjoying beautiful sexual activity with a loving partner, are you alone watching porn or are you turning away from your partner to watch porn? Pretty much everyone watches porn online – that in itself is no reason to worry. If you are asking: What is porn addiction? What are the signs of porn addiction? How to break a porn addiction? [ … ]
Your Sexual Self
TheLoversGuide - February 22, 2022
The answer would seem to be obvious – men. They think about sex way more, have double the sexual urges, fantasize more, masturbate more – and it is all triggered [ … ]
TheLoversGuide - May 26, 2020
Female ejaculation refers to the expulsion of fluid from the urethra that is different from urine. The fluid is described as looking like watered-down fat-free milk, tasting sweet, and usually about a teaspoon (3–5 cc) in volume. The biological phenomenon of female ejaculation has been a normal and pleasurable experience of many women’s sexuality. Aristotle was probably the first to write about female ejaculation and Galen is said to have known about it in the second century [ … ]
