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As a man – would you try a prostate orgasm? As a partner, female or male, would you help your lover to achieve one? Although many guys are wary of anal stimulation, the male G-spot is increasingly becoming a subject of conversation – and prostate massagers are becoming more mainstream as sex toys – sales have increased over 50% in the last 5 years – since even straight men are finally beginning to recognize how pleasurable it feels to experience a full-body prostate orgasm through anal penetration.
Where is the male G-spot?
While many men dread their first prostate exam, the so-called ‘male G-spot’ can also be a source of mind-blowing pleasure, according to those men who have experienced prostate orgasms. The prostate is a mysterious, misunderstood organ. A walnut-size gland found between a man’s bladder and his rectum, the prostate’s main function is to produce fluid that is expelled as part of semen during ejaculation. It’s also the source of prostate cancer, which is the most common cancer in men. Some doctors are encouraging men to perform regular prostate massages, claiming they can potentially help to alleviate the symptoms of various health issues, including helping to treat erectile dysfunction and painful ejaculation.
The ‘male G-spot’ is packed with thousands of nerve endings, which means that when you stimulate it, it feels really, really good. Many men report being able to experience orgasm from prostate stimulation alone. Ready to go on the hunt for the male G-spot? Here’s how.
If you’re trying prostate massage by yourself, make sure your hands are clean. If you’re trying it with a partner, check their digits for any hangnails. Perhaps most importantly, always use lube, as the anus does not self lubricate. If putting something in your rectum hurts, slow down and add more lube.
How to stimulate the male G-spot
Before going in to hit the male G-spot, start with a gentle external massage on your perineum (also known as your taint), which is located between the testicles and anus. If the external massage feels good, curve your (at this point, lubed-up) finger into your rectum towards your belly button. The location of the male G-spot is two or so inches in. You should be able to feel your prostate. It’s important to note that you really don’t have to go much further than that, particularly on your first try.
So, insert one finger a few inches into your anus and push up toward your belly button. Wiggle it around a bit, tap the inner walls, and apply different amounts of pressure to see what feels good to you.
Male G-spot toys
There are dedicated prostate massager sex toys designed in order to reach the male G-spot. (You can also try a mae G-spot vibrator.) You always want to buy anal sex toys with a tail or a wide base so that it doesn’t get lost up there. You don’t want yours to end up in the ‘Butt Bin’ at the ER where they keep objects found in people’s rectums.
Enjoy the hunt – and even more the mind-blowing, full-body orgasm this can deliver!