Your big gay cock doesn’t always have to go in whichever orifice seems nearest and most convenient. Imagine: no top, no bottom, just two guys having a great time jacking off. Here’s how it goes.
You’re turned on? Seize that moment! Get naked, or not – briskly lowered pants and a lifted T-shirt can be as, if not more, sexy, both in look and feel. Stand, kneel, lie side by side – whatever takes your fancy. You might give each other a bit of a lick, but essentially it’s all in the hand. Yours on yours, his on yours – and so on.
Sharing masturbation
Hold the two cocks together. Wrap a hand around both of them – which, again, looks and feels sexy – and masturbate both at once. Touch heads: let the two cocks say hello to each other. (As always, safe sex is de rigueur, especially is he’s an unknown quantity!) Do his while he does yours, then when you switch back your own cock may feel different, as if you’re feeling it anew by having worked on his. It’s a slightly dissociated feeling, as if your cock somehow isn’t a part of you. You’ll appreciate its size, shape and texture all the more for that.
Lube for better gay sex
Try lubing up and seeing how that goes. Be warned: it gets slippery, and lubed penises can tend to need two hands to find themselves worked on properly, which can become a bit like a game of Twister. On the other hand, so to speak, it’s a chance to slow down and experiment, suggest things you want him to do on you by doing them to him. Try kneading the head, twisting around the shaft as if you’re opening champagne, working deep around the root while massaging his balls, going underground with one hand to finger his anus while the other glides slowly up and down along the length of the penis.
Linger, play, explore. And don’t be in denial of the moment (if it occurs) when you want to put his cock down and just work on yourself and race towards climax. As to where you project the come…let your dry-cleaning budget be your guide!