In an ideal world, coming out would be a thing of the past. There’d be no coming out to get through. As we developed our sexual identities through adolescence our [ … ]
Other Men’s Erections – Your First Time
Gay men’s first encounters with other men’s erections can be strange and complex experiences. There’s excitement. You’ve got there. You’ve got him stripped to his intimate, naked self. He’s upright [ … ]
What Is Douching – And How Do I Do It?
Douching is the practice of cleaning the bowels some time prior to sex by filling them with water then expelling that water. It is a way of ensuring the rectum [ … ]
Lost Libido
He’s hot, you’re not. You’re compatible, but somehow your penis isn’t so keen. If you’re the one with the low libido, don’t think of this as a terrible, insurmountable problem [ … ]
Am I Gay?
Looking back, many men who identify as gay know they’ve been so for as long as they remember. When they found the word gay and applied it to themselves, no [ … ]
Homophobia: A Brief Survival Guide
It’s easy enough to see why homophobia exists, and why homophobic bullying happens. People bully. They want the excuse. They want something, someone to get at, to make feel bad, [ … ]
How To Pass The First Date Test
You can worry about it and muddle it all you like. You can say the wrong thing, spill the wine, pig out on a four course feast while your date [ … ]
Using Toys To Enhance Sex Positions For Her
Generally speaking, men find it much easier to climax during sex than women do. While it’s all well and good to go with the ‘ladies first’ approach, that isn’t always [ … ]
Doggy-Style Sex Positions Made Better For Both Of You
Many men love doggy-style sex for its pace and intensity, and sheer visceral thrill, as well as for the visuals and the feeling of dominance. It can also be great [ … ]
Woman-On-Top Sex Positions | Sofa Sex
The comfy sofa is a great place for exploring seated woman-on-top sex positions. It’s where a lot of us start thinking about having sex as the nights draw in, and [ … ]
Bottom On Top | Gay Sex Positions
For variety, a shift in perspective, or if one of you is an anal beginner, get the top to lie back and relax while the bottom rides…
Problem Solving
Do you ignore problems in your relationship, hoping they will go away, or do you pack your bags? Problems needn’t herald the end. They can be an opportunity to change [ … ]
Sexual Dreams | Our Sex Fantasies Decoded
Dreams are the language of our unconscious mind. Learning to decipher them is never easy, but trying to unravel sexual dreams can be tantalizing. Nearly everyone has experienced sexual dreams. [ … ]
Enjoying The Anticipation
Anticipation is a wonderful thing. Think back to the days of teenage fumbling, before you’d ever had sex. The urgency, the arousal and the beautifully aching frustration of wanting someone [ … ]
How To Make Friends And Influence People
Here’s what’s happening. You’re out and about, perhaps at the local, and you meet – we’ll take this from the point of view of the girls and call him Joe. [ … ]
The Bum-Lift Sex Position
This sex position, in which the man is on top, is not very difficult and allows for deep penetration from an unusual angle. To achieve this position, the woman lies [ … ]
How Will You Love Me? The Clues, The Rules
The ways people look, dress, talk and move provide clues about their sexual performance. Master these skills, read the signals your possible partner doesn’t even know he or she is [ … ]
My Man Wants Anal Sex Play: Am I Losing Him?
Using anal sex toys on him: when he wants anal sex play, could this enhance your relationship or are there issues? ‘I’ve been with this really sweet guy for going [ … ]
I’ve Never Been Able Sexually To Arouse My Mind
‘I’ve being hunting the net for hours today for answer and accidentally stumbled across your site. I’ve got to a point where all I can do is ask questions and [ … ]
Go Nuts: How Best To Play With His Testicles
Do you know that almost 90% of men like their partner to play with their balls? And 50% of men incorporate testicular stimulation into their masturbation routine. But the real [ … ]