Cause: A bacteria called treponema. This enters the body through tiny cracks in the skin or by penetrating mucus membranes, such as through oral sex, then lives and multiplies in [ … ]
Compatibility In Lesbian Relationships
If you’re thinking of a long term relationship, here’s how to judge if you really are going to be right for each other beyond the first three months of loved [ … ]
Control In A Mixed Age Lesbian Relationship
My older partner never wants me to take the sexual initiative and turn her on. She is so controlling… ‘My partner and I have this age gap. I am 23 [ … ]
Anger Management For Gay Men
Usually when we fight, and especially in relationships, it is our own internal anger and conflict we are expressing. Yes, there are times in life when we need to stand [ … ]
Hitting The Scene – And Thriving!
It can be like swimming with sharks when you first hit the scene, the sprawl of clubs and bars in whichever big city you’re nearest to. When you enter the [ … ]
My Boyfriend Wants Me To Top Him: What Do I Do?
It can feel such a sexy thrill to submit completely to a dominant partner, to the point where we lock our cock and balls in a chastity device and give [ … ]
Best Sex Positions To Enhance Female Orgasm
A question: ‘I’m fairly sure I have a big enough penis – well, it’s seven and a bit inches from where I like to measure it, and it feels pretty [ … ]
Threesomes: A Number 1 Fantasy But Could Your Relationship Survive One?
There is no reliable evidence that a threesome is certain to ruin your relationship. But actually having one is likely to make challenges to your sexuality, emotions and orientations surface [ … ]
The Long Sex Drive Home – For Lesbians
There’s a strange, common misconception that all gay people do is have sex – girls get together and you can’t move for clothes flying off, then they come up for [ … ]
Open Relationships Among Lesbians
Why is it totally surprising that lesbians should engage in open relationships and shy away from commitment? Many lesbians and bisexual women are now choosing to be more independent, contrary [ … ]
How To Sleep With Someone New For The First Time
As lesbians, girls don’t quite do the sex thing the same as boys – who simply tell you they want it and then get on with it. With two girls, [ … ]
Achieving Intimacy In Lesbian Relationships
Being intimate with another person is a pleasure that goes far beyond that of a purely sexual relationship. Sharing yourself with someone can lead to a deep and fulfilling relationship, [ … ]
Rimming Him | Love That hole
First off: we must say that this is not a safe sexual practice. No matter HIV, there are plenty of other STIs doing the round. They may sound like names of Greek gods, but you don’t want them. (Vaccinating for Hep A&B can be a good thing.) [ … ]
First Time Advice For Gay Anal Sex
Anal sex is often seen as the definitive form of gay love-making. You might think, and be pressured to think, that if you’re not doing it, be you top, bottom [ … ]
Your First Gay Relationships
The first time, or several times, that you have a boyfriend, it can be the case that there’s an explosive release of hopes, dreams, desires and pent-up emotions. You feel [ … ]
Dating Old, Dating Young | Mixed-Age Gay Relationships
Mixed age relationships can be challenging for both the older and younger partner. It isn’t only what your friends might say. It’s also to do with the meeting of differences [ … ]
Intimacy, Anxiety And Touch
True intimacy can be a challenge to achieve and many people are wary of risking it. A lot of guys we meet are up for sex and many interpret the [ … ]
The First Week Beyond The First Night
Romance strikes! The two of you wake the next morning, take a long look in each other’s eyes, and realise you actually still fancy each other! In a perfect world, [ … ]
How To Flirt
Flirting is massively underrated but it’s a great way to make someone desire you! Let your partner know that you want him and, if you’re feeling brave, give him a [ … ]
Setting The Scene | First Time Gay?
You’ve had a wonderful evening. You dined well, perhaps saw a play, spent a little more time than you’d planned getting lost in the noise of your favourite bar. Now [ … ]