This position, in which the woman is on top, is very simple and allows for clitoral stimulation. To achieve this position, the man lies on his back while the woman straddles him, leaning forward with her weight on her hands, and she rides him. It’s easy to kiss your partner in this position [ … ]
Sex Positions That Help Burn Calories | Get Fitter And Leaner Between The Sheets
When stuck together – and many of us tending to overeat – can you use your intimate encounters to keep yourself trim? We know that getting fit can help you have a better sex life, but can having a better sex life help get you fitter? Now, we don’t mean to kick this off negatively, but it is clear that anyone who believes that sex could be a more effective form of exercise than, say, jogging is sadly mistaken. Of course, that’s leaving out the pleasure factor, where surely sex wins hands down [ … ]
Sex And Power | BDSM Meaning | Defining Your Sexual Relationship
What is the sexual power balance in your relationship? Is it equal – or are you the dominant partner or the one domineered over? How much is power an aphrodisiac [ … ]
Elevating Sex From Good To Great
‘As a sex and relationship therapist, I’ve treated hundreds of couples complaining of various sexual dysfunctions or relationship challenges. While I can say that I have helped most of them overcome their hurdles, there is always the occasional client who, despite having met their primary goals, still feels like there is something more to be had. “What else can we do?” they usually ask me’ [ … ]
Anal Orgasm For Men | Prostate Orgasm | The Male G-Spot
As a man – would you try a prostate orgasm? As a partner, female or male, would you help your lover to achieve one? Although many guys are wary of anal stimulation, the male G-spot is increasingly becoming a subject of conversation – and prostate massagers are becoming more mainstream as sex toys [ … ]
A History Of Sex In Video Games | When Has It Crossed The Line?
While the gaming industry has seemed to reach its own equilibrium with sex in games — namely, what counts as a “mature” depiction of it — the rest of the [ … ]
How To Have Multiple Orgasms
Multiple female orgasms are by no means the norm but – no myth – they are certainly possible. Having a lover who knows how to help you have multiple orgasms is a huge boon. Studies suggest that somewhere between 14 and 40 per cent of women achieve multiple orgasms in one session. Women have a special advantage over men when it comes to multiple orgasms [ … ]
How Many Calories Does Sex Really Burn?
Sex may feel like a workout sometimes, but just how many calories are you actually burning under the sheets? Researchers first posed that question in 1984, in a paper published in the Archives of Internal Medicine concluding that sex equated to light-to-moderate exercise. Several more studies since then have found similar conclusions [ … ]
Mutual Masturbation | Masturbating With Your Partner
Penetrative intercourse isn’t the be-all and end-all of sexual pleasure. Have you thought of trying mutual masturbation to spice up your sex life? It’s great for a lot of reasons, no matter who your partner is. When you think of mutual masturbation, you might wonder: ‘Why not just have sex?’ [ … ]
How To Stop A Porn Addiction | Side Effects
Are you addicted to porn? Instead of enjoying beautiful sexual activity with a loving partner, are you alone watching porn or are you turning away from your partner to watch porn? Pretty much everyone watches porn online – that in itself is no reason to worry. If you are asking: What is porn addiction? What are the signs of porn addiction? How to break a porn addiction? [ … ]
Jealousy | Envy | Control | Love And Relationship Issues
There is a purpose to most human emotions. Love leads to pairing, caring and, in many cases, having children. Fear readies you to resist attack. But what of jealousy? At first sight it seems to be totally negative, causing misery both to the jealous and their partner. It breaks up marriages and relationships, and in extreme cases, leads to violence and even bloodshed. It is emotionally charged [ … ]
Sexual Arousal And Brain-Sex | Arouse Your Mind
Better sex? It’s just a matter of getting down to it, right? But if you are interested in creating a more sexy-sensual build-up, whether with a new partner or in a long-term relationship, you can do a lot to make sex better before slipping between the sheets. This goes way beyond foreplay, essential though that be for, especially, a woman’s arousal. Throughout the day, arouse your partner [ … ]
Sex Positions For Fat People | Sex When You’re Overweight
The biggest obstacle to enjoying sex is not body size but body image. If you feel sexy, you will be sexy. Many people are overweight – with percentages as high [ … ]
How To Get Better At Sex | Loving It? Faking it? Is Your Partner Enjoying Your Sex Life As You Are?
Sex should be very pleasurable for both parties, right? But how do you really tell if your partner is actually enjoying sex – and getting off on the moves you’re making? Remember When Harry Met Sally – and the Meg Ryan (fake) orgasm? Here’s how to check if you are truly connected sexually – or if there might be work to be done getting better [ … ]
The Fragile Existence Of Sex Workers During the Pandemic
With each passing day, the strip club in downtown Manhattan grew a little emptier. Fewer customers were drinking premium liquor and eating steaks in the plush banquettes; fewer patrons were [ … ]
Cyber-Sex And Lockdown | Virtual Sextortion Surges As Men Stay Home
If you’re staying home to flatten the curve, be careful trying to get a rise by looking for love online, say experts who’ve been flooded with sextortion complaints. With much of [ … ]
What Is Foreplay? Definition Of Love | Sexy Foreplay
Foreplay: meaning the sex-play you have before penetrative sex? We think it’s a misnomer – when it might not be the precursor to anything but complete in itself. Oral sex and masturbation can themselves be the main event with your partner. To define foreplay, which we prefer to call sex play, and even made a Lovers’ Guide video with that name, we often think of a long, slow build-up to intercourse [ … ]
Sex And Recreational Drugs | And Rock And Roll? | The Least You Need To Know
Drug use for sex – or chem-sex – is for many a reality. There are the legal drugs – though check the law in your jurisdiction – and then there [ … ]
Sexual Healing In Lockdown | Using Lockdown To Ignite Desire
For many of us right now, sex couldn’t be further from our minds. Our usual routines have been turned upside down and the way we are living can be challenging for even the most harmonious of relationships. But what if we viewed this time as a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to reset and refresh our sex lives [ … ]
How To Deal With Doubt In Your Relationship
Whether you have been together seven weeks or seven years, doubt can creep into your relationship. But how can you tell if your doubt is normal or a sign of [ … ]