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Gay Sexual Health
Am I Gay? Or LGBTQIA+ | Your Sexual Orientation
Figuring out your orientation can be complicated. Are you certain of yours? The sex researcher Kinsey saw orientation as a six point scale from entirely gay to entirely straight. But [ … ]
Buried Memories
As well as being physically intense, receiving anal sex can be a highly emotional experience. There is the sense of release from the day to day masks we wear, of [ … ]
Sexercise | PC Muscles For Gay Men
No, alas, the penis isn’t a muscle. If it were, erections to order would be as easy as raising a hand – and anxiety levels for men the world over [ … ]
Painful Anal Sex
Anal sex shouldn’t be painful, assuming you do not wish to experience pain. If it does hurt, there are a number of things which might be going wrong, most of [ … ]
Coming Out As Gay
In an ideal world, coming out would be a thing of the past. There’d be no coming out to get through. As we developed our sexual identities through adolescence our [ … ]
Other Men’s Erections – Your First Time
Gay men’s first encounters with other men’s erections can be strange and complex experiences. There’s excitement. You’ve got there. You’ve got him stripped to his intimate, naked self. He’s upright [ … ]
What Is Douching – And How Do I Do It?
Douching is the practice of cleaning the bowels some time prior to sex by filling them with water then expelling that water. It is a way of ensuring the rectum [ … ]
Lost Libido
He’s hot, you’re not. You’re compatible, but somehow your penis isn’t so keen. If you’re the one with the low libido, don’t think of this as a terrible, insurmountable problem [ … ]
Am I Gay?
Looking back, many men who identify as gay know they’ve been so for as long as they remember. When they found the word gay and applied it to themselves, no [ … ]
Homophobia: A Brief Survival Guide
It’s easy enough to see why homophobia exists, and why homophobic bullying happens. People bully. They want the excuse. They want something, someone to get at, to make feel bad, [ … ]
Erotic Gay Selves | Your Sexual Self
We play different roles, we have different selves, and during the course of the average day the erotic can tend to be driven far from our minds, even forcibly repressed [ … ]