Should you watch porn with your partner? Truth is, it’s a bad mistake to ignore pornography – even if your overall view is to find it disgusting. Fact is, porn [ … ]
Love And Relationship Issues
Single Men Are Putting Relationships Above Casual Sex
Are you single? Are you finding that casual sex just doesn’t have the same appeal as it did a year or two ago? If so, you are certainly not alone. [ … ]
How Self-Love Empowers You – And Your Relationships
The importance of self-love for yourself – and the impact it has on your relationships – can’t be overstated. With the right attitude, you’ll create a thriving relationship satisfying both [ … ]
Fear Of Sexual Intimacy | ‘I Only Go For Men Who Are Not Available’
The pursuit of the unobtainable is a problem for many people. Its causes lie deep, but intimacy can be found – and accepted – through therapy. Emma (24): I’m 24 and [ … ]
Lights, Camera, Action? | ‘My Wife Wants To Make Home Porn’
Homemade ‘porn’ can seem a daunting prospect, but with a little preparation – and careful agreement about when the results may be shown – it can certainly make for a [ … ]
Does Porn Use Damage Your Relationship?
Does watching porn damage relationships? If you google what harm porn use can do to people and their relationships, what you are most likely to find is dire warnings. That [ … ]
Jealousy | Envy | Control | Love And Relationship Issues
There is a purpose to most human emotions. Love leads to pairing, caring and, in many cases, having children. Fear readies you to resist attack. But what of jealousy? At first sight it seems to be totally negative, causing misery both to the jealous and their partner. It breaks up marriages and relationships, and in extreme cases, leads to violence and even bloodshed. It is emotionally charged [ … ]
My Partner Saw A Prostitute?!
‘In the middle of a really bad row, and I mean a 9 on the Richter Scale, my husband spat at me that he had once been to a prostitute. [ … ]
Love Scripts | Bad Relationship Patterns | How To Avoid The Loop
Ever wondered why you find yourself in relationships that aren’t good for you? It could be you’re following your love script, your largely unconscious sense of how your relationships ought [ … ]
I’m Snooping On My Partner’s Internet Sex Sites
‘I sometimes find my boyfriend on the internet, well, more that I see the ‘history’ of the sites he’s visited, and they’re just porn. We have an enthusiastic sex life [ … ]
Loneliness | When You Feel There’s No-One
How is it that you can feel perfectly happy on your own yet feel lonely in a crowd? Is it less to do with what others think of you and [ … ]
My Partner Doesn’t Like My Sex Toys
There are men out there who have issues with their partner’s sex toys. The sense of competition is a factor. So too is the nagging thought that, as ‘real men’, [ … ]
Problem Solving
Do you ignore problems in your relationship, hoping they will go away, or do you pack your bags? Problems needn’t herald the end. They can be an opportunity to change [ … ]
Sexual Mood Swings: What’s The Problem?
Advice is given to a man who experiences huge, periodic variations in his states of arousal and readiness to ejaculate/orgasm. When premature ejaculation alternates with retarded ejaculation, what’s going wrong? [ … ]
When Casual, Fun Sex Isn’t Enough For Him
‘I’ve been having fairly casual, good fun sex with a friend. I’m happiest not calling this a relationship. He’s seemed to want more – and now he’s started avoiding me [ … ]
I’m A Sexy, Powerful Woman: They’re Letting Me Down
‘I’m a 25 year old who’s always liked short involvements or one night stands; I’m a professional woman, a boss, very into sex and, I like to think very savvy [ … ]
Obsession | Dangerous Relationships
Crushes on pop stars and schoolteachers are one thing, but when does a harmless fixation turn into a dangerous fantasy? When the obsessed one is an adult who has lost [ … ]