When stuck together – and many of us tending to overeat – can you use your intimate encounters to keep yourself trim? We know that getting fit can help you have a better sex life, but can having a better sex life help get you fitter? Now, we don’t mean to kick this off negatively, but it is clear that anyone who believes that sex could be a more effective form of exercise than, say, jogging is sadly mistaken. Of course, that’s leaving out the pleasure factor, where surely sex wins hands down [ … ]
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Anal Orgasm For Men | Prostate Orgasm | The Male G-Spot
As a man – would you try a prostate orgasm? As a partner, female or male, would you help your lover to achieve one? Although many guys are wary of anal stimulation, the male G-spot is increasingly becoming a subject of conversation – and prostate massagers are becoming more mainstream as sex toys [ … ]
How To Have Multiple Orgasms
Multiple female orgasms are by no means the norm but – no myth – they are certainly possible. Having a lover who knows how to help you have multiple orgasms is a huge boon. Studies suggest that somewhere between 14 and 40 per cent of women achieve multiple orgasms in one session. Women have a special advantage over men when it comes to multiple orgasms [ … ]
Mutual Masturbation | Masturbating With Your Partner
Penetrative intercourse isn’t the be-all and end-all of sexual pleasure. Have you thought of trying mutual masturbation to spice up your sex life? It’s great for a lot of reasons, no matter who your partner is. When you think of mutual masturbation, you might wonder: ‘Why not just have sex?’ [ … ]
How To Stop A Porn Addiction | Side Effects
Are you addicted to porn? Instead of enjoying beautiful sexual activity with a loving partner, are you alone watching porn or are you turning away from your partner to watch porn? Pretty much everyone watches porn online – that in itself is no reason to worry. If you are asking: What is porn addiction? What are the signs of porn addiction? How to break a porn addiction? [ … ]
Sexual Arousal And Brain-Sex | Arouse Your Mind
Better sex? It’s just a matter of getting down to it, right? But if you are interested in creating a more sexy-sensual build-up, whether with a new partner or in a long-term relationship, you can do a lot to make sex better before slipping between the sheets. This goes way beyond foreplay, essential though that be for, especially, a woman’s arousal. Throughout the day, arouse your partner [ … ]
Sex Positions For Fat People | Sex When You’re Overweight
The biggest obstacle to enjoying sex is not body size but body image. If you feel sexy, you will be sexy. Many people are overweight – with percentages as high [ … ]
How To Get Better At Sex | Loving It? Faking it? Is Your Partner Enjoying Your Sex Life As You Are?
Sex should be very pleasurable for both parties, right? But how do you really tell if your partner is actually enjoying sex – and getting off on the moves you’re making? Remember When Harry Met Sally – and the Meg Ryan (fake) orgasm? Here’s how to check if you are truly connected sexually – or if there might be work to be done getting better [ … ]
What Is Foreplay? Definition Of Love | Sexy Foreplay
Foreplay: meaning the sex-play you have before penetrative sex? We think it’s a misnomer – when it might not be the precursor to anything but complete in itself. Oral sex and masturbation can themselves be the main event with your partner. To define foreplay, which we prefer to call sex play, and even made a Lovers’ Guide video with that name, we often think of a long, slow build-up to intercourse [ … ]
Sex Positions Love And Relationship Issues: ‘I Only Experience Female Orgasm When I’m On Top.’
‘When I have sex with my man, I like to ride him. Why? Because that’s the only way I have had an orgasm. I want to know how he can give me an orgasm without playing out that position. This has been the first person I have ever had an orgasm with! I just actually felt and knew what an orgasm was about 1 yr ago. Ever since I have wanted that position because that orgasm feels really good! [ … ]
What To Do If You Get Nervous About Sex
Whether you are nervous about your body, your sexual technique, or even your relationship, sex is personal no matter how you look at it. Whether you’re into casual sex or [ … ]
Masturbation Before Sex | The Benefits? | Define Foreplay
Are there benefits for both males and females in masturbating before sex? Some have heard that it can help men last longer and, for females, reduce tension and find release before actual intercourse. There is no scientific proof of the notion that masturbating before sex can desensitize the penis [ … ]
Problem: ‘I’m Worried About A Lesbian Sex Fantasy’
Don’t take your same sex fantasies literally: they don’t mean you’re a voyeur, a ‘pervert’, or that you’re really gay. Do explore the masculine and feminine parts of yourself, which [ … ]
How Long Does It Take For A Woman To Experience Female Orgasm?
So how long does it take for a woman to achieve her orgasm? That is the time between sexual arousal and orgasm. The answer is official – and it’s very specific: 13.46 minutes of sexual activity, apparently. So set your timers [ … ]
Better Orgasms | Sex Technique
Although the vast majority of lovemaking and foreplay techniques concentrate – quite rightly – on unselfishness as a prerequisite for good sex, there are times in most couples’ lives when they want to concentrate on the quality of their own orgasms and not just those of their partner. This doesn’t mean selfless lovemaking has to go out of the window, but it does demand, occasionally, a slightly different approach to sex [ … ]
Bridge The Sex-Drive Gap | Better Foreplay
Lost your appetite for sex? Sometimes you’re not in the mood for sex when he is and vice versa. Whatever your level of desire, follow these simple tips to help sustain love-making. We might wonder at times how often we should be having sex, as if we’re somehow failing if we fall behind a probable national average [ … ]
Great Female Oral Sex Positions To Really Get You Off
When we think of going down on a woman (cunnilingus), we probably think of three positions, at most. Probably the first to come to mind is of the woman lying [ … ]
Male Masturbation Tips For Explosive Orgasms
Many men masturbate the way couples use the missionary sex position: they keep repeating the same old, same old. We know that it’s totally normal and orgasm has a range [ … ]
Standing Sex Positions | From Quickies To Exotic Romps
An often overlooked but highly erotic set of sex positions are those where you are standing up. Actually, they open up a wide range of opportunities going from the quick, [ … ]
Better Sex | Rhythm In Lovemaking
Making love has its mood and its pace. Whatever the season or time of day, understand your own rhythms and those of your partner for a more memorable lovemaking experience. [ … ]