My sex problem: When I have sex with my man, I like to ride him. Why? Because that’s the only way I have had an orgasm. I want to know how he can give me an orgasm without playing out that position [ … ]
Sex Problems
Lost Libido? Men And Women Who Avoid Sex
For the very lucky couple who are perfectly balanced in their sexual needs and appetites, neither avoids sex. But if one partner goes off sex, the balance is lost and [ … ]
Anxiety And Sex | Living With Anxiety And Having Sex
Anxiety and sex are not happy bedfellows. Living with anxiety often means it’s present wherever you go ― including between the sheets. Whether it’s anxiety/stress itself or the medication you [ … ]
How To Stop A Porn Addiction | Side Effects
Are you addicted to porn? Instead of enjoying beautiful sexual activity with a loving partner, are you alone watching porn or are you turning away from your partner to watch porn? Pretty much everyone watches porn online – that in itself is no reason to worry. If you are asking: What is porn addiction? What are the signs of porn addiction? How to break a porn addiction? [ … ]
What To Do If You Get Nervous About Sex
Whether you are nervous about your body, your sexual technique, or even your relationship, sex is personal no matter how you look at it. Whether you’re into casual sex or [ … ]
Problem: ‘I’m Worried About A Lesbian Sex Fantasy’
Don’t take your same sex fantasies literally: they don’t mean you’re a voyeur, a ‘pervert’, or that you’re really gay. Do explore the masculine and feminine parts of yourself, which [ … ]
Sexual Arousal And Mood Swings
Advice to a man who experiences huge, periodic variations in his states of sexual arousal and readiness to ejaculate/orgasm. When premature ejaculation alternates with retarded ejaculation, what’s going wrong? ‘I [ … ]
Overcoming Sexual Inhibitions
Any inhibitions – even something as simple as making love with the lights on – can be overcome using a simple training programme. There is no denying that inhibitions are [ … ]
Faking Orgasm
Why are some women better at pretending they are enjoying sex than actually enjoying it? Why do they have to fake orgasm – and what can be done? Help is [ … ]
Sex Problem: ‘I Have Failed To Achieve Female Orgasm Since Childbirth’
‘Since I gave birth to our two year old child, I have not been able to achieve even one orgasm during sex. I used to have multiple orgasms nearly every [ … ]
Sex Problem | Painful Sex
Painful sex is a very real problem that can rock the steadiest relationship – but by finding out the possible causes, the problem can often be overcome. Almost every woman [ … ]
A Problem: ‘Bad Sexual Experiences Have Damaged My Self-Esteem’
‘I have serious sex problems. I am 29 yrs old, recovering from an eating disorder. I am in a relationship and I love my husband VERY much. But like many [ … ]
Premature Ejaculation | Prolonging Sex, Delaying Orgasm – For Men
Men who worry about how long it takes them to come aren’t doing themselves any favours, in terms both of enjoying sex, rather than worrying the while, and of lasting longer. Prolonging sex and delaying orgasm needn’t be, and shouldn’t be, an exercise in trying to switch off from feelings. Your body will just get on doing what it’s doing while your mind is trying to be elsewhere. If you want to last longer, you’d be better learning to enjoy the feeling of having sex while it’s happening, rather than fixate on the ‘goal’ [ … ]
Sex Problems | My Partner Isn’t Able To Penetrate Me
‘Hi. My problem is penetration. Me and my partner do long lovemaking. We both are fully excited but as soon as he tries to penetrate he becomes loose or sometimes [ … ]
Problem: ‘I Get So Little Out Of Masturbation’
If masturbation has gone stale for you, follow these tips and you’ll get your levels of sexual arousal back to the right heights… Barry (24): ‘Although I’ve masturbated since I was in my early teens, I find it less and less interesting and arousing. In fact, it’s got rather boring. Is there anything I can do about it?’ [ … ]
I Can’t Experience Orgasm With My Boyfriend
‘Help! I’ve been dating my bf for seven months now, and I really love him, he is really great in bed – he would do whatever to make me feel [ … ]
My Sexual Fantasies Are Really Scaring Me
‘Okay, when I’m actually having sex I must be about the most vanilla person on the planet – I’m probably quite passive in bed. Though I love being made love [ … ]
Oral Sex Issues | In My Mouth?
We’d like here to talk through some of the concerns and questions regarding oral sex which we have received from you. To judge by your messages, it seems that all [ … ]
My Partner Doesn’t Like My Sex Toys
There are men out there who have issues with their partner’s sex toys. The sense of competition is a factor. So too is the nagging thought that, as ‘real men’, [ … ]
My Man Wants Anal Sex Play: Am I Losing Him?
Using anal sex toys on him: when he wants anal sex play, could this enhance your relationship or are there issues? ‘I’ve been with this really sweet guy for going [ … ]