If you’re single, there’s one guaranteed way to improve your pulling chances. Go out more. You may complain that you never meet anyone but are you doing anything to help yourself? The more that you’re out and about, the more likely you are to meet someone.
If you’re having a hard time finding the perfect person, change the places you go to, or the days that you go to them. And there’s no need to stick to bars and clubs. Read local listings and see what else is going on. Maybe there’s an exhibition you’d like to see or a new restaurant opening. Go to places that reflect your interests and you’re more likely to meet someone who you’ll get on with.
Many people meet their future partner at work and a third of women have dated someone they met in the office. Go to your work socials and you could meet your perfect mate. However, check your work policies on relationships first. Some companies don’t approve, particularly if the relationship is between a person and their boss.
Don’t be scared to go out on your own. People can be intimidated about approaching someone in a large group of friends. As long as you can get home safely it’s a great way to meet new people. Pick somewhere that it’s easy to strike up conversation like a bookshop or a pub like All Bar One, with big tables that everyone shares. Take or wear an item that can act as a conversation starter, whether it’s a book or a striking piece of jewellery. Spending time out on your own will also help build your confidence, as you’ll learn to enjoy your own company.
There are also numerous singles events that you can attend. Check local publications for details. You can also go on flirting courses, which are an ideal place to meet new people.
You won’t find love by staying in the house, unless you get lucky with the postman or pizza delivery person! Vary the places that you go and, as well as having a more exciting social life, you may well meet the person of your dreams.